I am always so appreciative of your thinking, insights and connecting the dots of racism to behavior (I booked you 10 years ago when I first came to UMass Medical School as a speaker). Thank you for your continued advocacy. Although I am all for how we turn us and them into we, I have learned to set very strict boundaries on where that process can begin. It doesn't require being a psychologist, which I am, to see and experience the propoganda and abusive tactics Trump has used over the past 4 years. He has played to the worst aspects of our humanity and manipulated the thinking of those with intellectual and mental limitations. He has been rewarded by their loyalty among his most ardent followers, reckless disregard by those in power who enable him, and passive self-centeredness by others who voted for him claiming something that they deemed a priority while turning a blind eye to his racist, sexist, xenophobic, homophobic, transphobic and overall deplorable behavior. These patterns will not stop under a Biden administration. Our move forward strategy has to include clear, non-negotiable boundaries for how and if we engage with one another. It is a much more proactive and healthier strategy. I am still about turning us and them into we, just all the more wiser about where to put my energy in doing so. Thanks for this article.